Romance, Finance - and DNA?!

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What the heck does DNA have to with Romance or Finance?

Well, one of the most profound ways your parents influence how much Love and Money you have in your life is through the DNA you inherited from them.

If your genes carry tendencies to say “No” to Love or Money, they shoot down the effectiveness of any consciously held beliefs that you’re worthy of, and ready for, Love or Money … without your even being aware of it.

If you have hundreds of generations of refusing Love or Money behind you, can you possibly overcome these deeply imprinted genetic patterns?

Yes!

All that’s needed is a change in perception – nothing more, and nothing less – so you can:

• Open to satisfying, lasting love with your current partner or a new one

• Hear the call of new opportunities for success, and feel good about acting on them

• See floods of money pouring in – enough to save, to spend, to invest; and still have plenty left over

Are you willing to expand and illuminate your understanding of your mother, your father, and all others who contributed to your genetic makeup?

Would you like to expand and illuminate your understanding of how you can feel free and safe to make different choices than your parents and earlier ancestors did – while still honoring them and their choices?

Would you like to know what to choose instead, and make it that you choose it now, with ease and grace … joy and confidence … and with love and respect for all concerned?

If you’re willing to receive this energy, say “Yes” out loud now.

Now, see what you see … feel what you feel … hear what you hear … know what you know. If you’re getting nothing … that’s fine. However you experience this is exactly right.

Good job! Well done! When you notice positive changes over the next few days, say “Thank you” out loud to bring even more Love, Money, Freedom and Fun into your life.  

Who do you think you are?

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Here is a thought to support you, wherever you are, in whatever you are doing:

You are more than your desires.

You are greater than your fear.

You are loved right now for exactly who you are.

Romance, Finance ... and Parents?

What Do Mom and Dad Have to Do with How Much Love and Money You Have Now?

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Here's the bottom line: The way your parents treated you tends to become the way you treat yourself … the way you expect others to treat you … and the way you expect to experience Love, Money, Freedom and Life Itself.

Since your expectations create your experience, if you want more Love, Money, and Freedom in your life, you need to become aware of any distorted tendencies around receiving that you’ve inherited from your parents.

Why is that?

Your parents profoundly influence your expectations --> You get what you expect --> What you get depends on how much you are willing to receive – rather than how hard you work, what your horoscope says, or how the economy looks.

So, how can you tell how open are you to receiving Love or Money? Consider this:

• Does money slip through your fingers as quickly as it comes in?
• Do you say “No problem” or “It’s nothing” when someone thanks you?
• When you see good fortune coming your way, do you think “This is too good to be true” or “I don’t believe it – I never get what I want”?

These are subtle ways of refusing your Good without appearing to do so. You do it unconsciously. 

It’s not your fault

Often, it’s your parents who taught you to refuse your Good (e.g., “We’re poor but proud” or “Who do you think you are?”). 

They couldn’t accept Love, Money or Freedom because their parents taught them these were wrong, bad, or against the will of God. That’s all they knew, so ...

It’s not their fault, either

Are you willing now to let go of the pain caused by refusing your Good?

Would you like to expand and illuminate your understanding of Giving and Receiving now?

Would you like to release your refusal of Good that is rightfully yours – and to know what to do instead, and make it that you do it now with confidence and joy?

If so, say “Yes” out loud now and feel what you feel, hear what you hear, see what you see, and know what you know. 

If you sense nothing, that’s fine. However you experience this is exactly right. 

Good job! Well done!

Happy Valentine's Day! I hope you're spending the day with someone you love.

Top 3 Misconceptions About Valentine's Day

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Valentine’s Day can feel like one of the hardest days of the year.

If that's true for you, the difficult often comes from misconceptions we tell ourselves about the day and what it means.

When you look at Valentine’s Day in a new light, you start feeling more loved and loving right away, whatever your love life looks like.

Would you like to do that now?

Let’s look at the top three misconceptions about Valentine’s Day. They sound like this:

1. “It’s Valentine’s Day and I’m single. That means I’m unwanted/ unloved/ doomed to die alone.”
2. “It’s Valentine’s Day and my mate changed my spark plugs for me … but what I really wanted was champagne and chocolate. If he/she really loved me, he/she would give me what I want.”
3. “My relationship is rocky/abusive/ending/nonexistent. Valentine’s Day makes me feel like everyone has a happy love life except for me.”

If your situation sounds like any of the above, you’ve come to the right place.

Are you willing to look at these misconceptions in a new light?

1. If you’re single and sad about it, consider the possibility that it’s your judgment about being single that’s making you unhappy – rather than Valentine’s Day itself. You’ve made up the meaning that “Single = Unloved/ Unwanted/Unlovable.” Would you be open to a new interpretation of “single” that brings you peace, joy and open-hearted willingness to meet your mate?
2. If you’re frustrated with Mr. or Ms. Spark Plug, recognize that different people show love in different ways. Spark plugs may have less sparkle than champagne … yet it’s your mate’s way of saying “You are precious to me and I want you to be safe.” How loving is that? Would you be open to recognizing all the ways your partner demonstrates love for you, including those you may have overlooked?
3. If you feel defeated about your love life – well, feeling defeated causes wrinkles, so would you be willing to let go of that, so you can look younger and feel better?

Whatever your situation – would you be open to a fresh perspective that will support you in feeling more loving toward yourself and others right now?

If so, say “Yes” out loud now and picture a diamond-bright pinpoint in your heart. Watch it expand to illuminate every cell in your body, mind, heart and soul. Imagine the light of Unconditional Love radiating from every pore on your skin. Breathe the Love in and out three times with me now.

Very good! Wow, you look shiny. Will you be my Valentine?

If you want more love, money, freedom and fun ...

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If you’re reading this, you probably want more love, money, freedom, and other good stuff in your life.

You’ve probably worked hard, passionately prayed, attended seminars, read books, visited coaches or healers or counselors … and wondered why, after all your efforts, you’re still nowhere near having what you want.

I SO hear your frustration.

Well, what’s up with that? Why has so much effort generated so little result?

Is it possible you have a problem with receiving?

Here’s the bottom line

If you feeling unable or unwilling to receive, nothing and no one can force you to accept, allow, or enjoy the rightful rewards for your efforts.

How can you tell if you have been unconsciously saying “No” to all the love, money and freedom you’ve struggled to achieve?

Check this out:

• Do you brush off compliments or praise?
• Do you say “No, thank you” when someone offers to help you?
• Do you see others who seem much less worthy, hard-working or spiritual than you, walking off with all the goodies you’ve been praying and working for? How unfair is that?

Tendencies like these reflect a deep-down difficulty with receiving. That’s why you’ve worked so hard for so little apparent result: All are given in accordance with their ability to receive.

So while your conscious mind – which makes up about 7% of your awareness – says “Yes! I want love, money and freedom – and I want it now!” …

Your unconscious mind – which makes up the other 93% of your awareness –may be screaming something like this:

• “No! It’s wrong for me to have more love/money/freedom/fun than my mother/father had!” (Well-meaning yet misguided loyalty)
• “Stop! If I have love/success/acceptance/money, I won’t be a victim/failure/outsider anymore … I won’t know who I am.” (Fear of loss of identity)
• “No! My friends/family/peers will be jealous if I have more money/love/freedom/fun than they do.” (Fear of loss of love)
• “Stop! If I accept X from Y, I’ll be under obligation to him/her. No way!” (Fear of loss of freedom)
• “No! If I have more, others will have less!” (Well-meaning yet misguided compassion) …
• “Stop! I’m not ready yet!” (Fear of change)

These are all valid and important concerns, so, in a sense you’re “protecting” yourself from Love, Money and More for very good reasons. 

It’s rational, in an irrational sort of way, isn’t it? That’s the unconscious mind for you ;-)

How can you change that?

All you need is a change in perception … nothing more and, nothing less.

Sound easier said than done?

That was true once upon a time. Now, we're blessed to live in a time when it has never been easier to change your perception, thanks to the shift in consciousness that began in late 2012.

In this blog, we’ll discover fast, simple ways to open to receive your Good – and feel good about receiving it.

It’s essential to feel good about Receiving – otherwise you’ll refuse it or throw it away. Funny, how Fear can make Fulfillment look as dangerous as a live hand grenade.

I hope you’ll join me for this new direction in our journey together. The best is yet to come!